Safety Tips

Protect Your Personal Information

Never share sensitive personal details with someone you've just met online. This includes your home address, workplace, phone number, financial information, or daily routine. Keep conversations within the platform until you feel completely comfortable.

Use the Platform's Messaging System

Stick to Calidating's built-in messaging and video chat features. Avoid moving to external apps or sharing social media handles too quickly. Our platform includes safety features and moderation that external apps don't have.

Video Chat Before Meeting

Always have a video call before arranging an in-person meeting. This helps verify that someone is who they claim to be and gives you a better sense of their personality and intentions.

Meet in Public Places

For your first several in-person meetings, choose busy public locations like coffee shops, restaurants, or parks. Avoid private residences or isolated areas. Let a friend or family member know where you're going and who you're meeting.

Trust Your Instincts

If something feels off—if someone is pressuring you, seems dishonest, or makes you uncomfortable—trust your gut. You can block and report any user at any time. Don't feel obligated to continue a conversation or meeting that doesn't feel right.

Be Aware of Scams

Watch for red flags such as:

• Requests for money or financial assistance
• Stories that seem too dramatic or convenient
• Profiles with only one photo or stock images
• Rapid progression of relationship terms ("love bombing")
• Refusal to video chat or meet in person after extended messaging
• Asking for personal photos or intimate content

Report Suspicious Behavior

If you encounter users who violate our community guidelines or make you feel unsafe, please report them immediately through the platform. Our moderation team reviews all reports and takes appropriate action.

Stay Sober and Alert

When meeting someone for the first time, stay sober and alert. Avoid excessive alcohol consumption that could impair your judgment. Keep your phone charged and accessible.

Set Boundaries

It's okay to set clear boundaries about what you're comfortable with. Communicate your limits clearly and expect them to be respected. A genuine connection will honor your pace and preferences.

Keep Your Friends in the Loop

Share details about your date with a trusted friend—who you're meeting, where you're going, and when you expect to return. Check in with them before and after the meeting.